To the guys - Let's say you been around a couple of ladyboys for a while. Slowly by slowly you find yourself getting closer to a particular one. You speak to her on the phone or e-mail her more often. You know more about her than a few weeks ago and you find it comfortable. You find yourself contacting her more frequently and by now you've thinking of going the next step.
What do you do? What's it going to lead to?
Let's assume that she's in some form of the P4P business; web cam girl, part/full time "escort" whatever and you're okay with it. (it's hard to find those that are in "decent" jobs.)
In my humble opinion, go with the flow - bring her out for a meal, go to the cinema just like you would with a genetic girl. They can be as funny, as charming and of course as beautiful. This the first stage - the friendship thing. Later if you find yourselves holding hands, hugging and the kissing thing - then you you're on to part 2. This is the touchy part - the boy/girl friend stage. This is when the emotions start coming in. You're thinking of a long term thing. But here tred very, very carefully. Remember one thing, most ladyboys are in the P4P scene. They know lots and lots of men. Having multiple partners is a common thing - it's their living. If you for one minute think that you're the only one think again! The probability of her having more than one boyfriend is extremely high. Just like a lot of guys who have "spare tyre girlfriends", so do the ladyboys.
So what do you do? Exactly the same...don't cut off your friendships with other ladyboys or GGs. Maintain a friendly relationship with them until you reach stage 3.
To be continued...
Pictured above is Francine from the Philippines. More of her here