A ladyboy as your girlfriend? Is that such an unlikely thought? Well, possible you might say. After all there are many that look as good as girls and have feminine qualities. They can also be real fun to be with and some have some arresting personalties that make you feel like you've been with them for twenty minutes when it's actually two hours. So let's say having a ladyboy "partner" is a plausible concept.
But here comes the twist - one that's in the P4P business? Hmmm...perhaps more tricky.
Straight away, thoughts of your loved one being in the arms of another man and having sex on top of it doesn't sound too appealing to say the least? And even if there's a promise to be faithful and the girl has gone out of the business, is there a nagging thought that she could miss the old life of the variety of multiple partners and the big money she could make?
Well, frankly, if you're thinking that way - forget it. Stick to being a butterfly and keep on trying the field. If there is no absolute trust, you and the girl are going to be dragged into a quagmire of endless disagreements ending in misery for both. Don't forget, the ladyboys aren't always the guilty party, most of us guys have "been around" too.
My two cents worth says - If you're in the serious girlfriend game, then take somebody who's close to their "career" end, say late twenties, early thirties. They're usually more mature, more realistic. Money doesn't automatically buy you her heart ( a decent bit does no harm, mind you), your personality and behaviour towards her also count. If she has a decent job and you stump out a fair bit of money to come a bit close to what she used to earn, it helps the "transition". Ladyboys are human, they need to be secure, they've got as much fears as we've got.
Frankly, successful relationships for people who were in the P4P are not that common but there again they're not impossible.
Comments anyone? Please fire away.